Let's be real, with all of the stereotyping and just plain bad advice, most Christian men can't tell you what they want. Oh sure, they'll give you some copied answer that they heard on TBN, but what really, does the science say, men, especially Christian ones want from a woman?

Our Faith Feed Anchors found out.

3) Appearance

According to Jim Burns of www.GrowthTrac.com. "Sex means more than sex" to a man. "When men feel their wives desire them sexually, it has a profound effect on the rest of their lives. It gives them an increasing sense of confidence and well-being that carries over into every other area of his life. The flipside of this coin also carries a profoundly negative affect." he continues. But realistically, a woman, especially a wife can't provide enough sex in a lifetime to meet this HUGE need in a man. So how is it done? Appearance! When a wife keeps herself looking nice for her man, in and outside of the bedroom, it instantly communicates your desire to impress, please, and overall want to be with him. And that's sexually and otherwise. 

2) Personality

Regardless to what the surveys say, a guy values personality over and above looks. Why? Its how you project yourself. Your person-ality is your style. Its your brand. Its your flavor. The walk. The talk. All of it is your person-being projected in the way you choose. Your personality is your social fingerprint. And it is oh so sexy to a Christian man. This explains why they love women who they've never seen naked, in the form of actresses, models, or the girl at work. Why? How she carried herself! Or, how she projects herself through personality. Guys like a woman who knows how to be a lady, is feminine and confident in her ability to not only be a great girlfriend or date, but a good wife as well. Simply put, she should be able to make him smile, with her clothes still on. 

1) Character

There is a saying that, "Character is what you are. Charming is what you are when you want something". The best men know how to detect character in a woman early on. The losers get caught up in appearance. Why? Men with more to offer have to be more careful in their selection. They can't just go for good packaging, as alluring as that is. No! These men have a wealth of love, money, and good sex they want to share with a lifetime partner, and refused to be tricked by a counterfeit. Character means you have standards that you stick to no matter what. It means you have a moral framework that is consistent with the bible, and you will die to maintain it. By comparison to this, beauty is vain. But a woman of godly character is to be praised [Proverbs 31:30]

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